The date

I've got a profile on a internetdating site. Or actually 2 different sites. One International and one Danish...

I don't know how it is anywhere else, but here in Denmark it is quite a taboo.
I have several friends who have found long-time partners on the internet, but you rarely talk about it.

Back when I wasn't aware of the fact that I'm gay, I tried finding guys in this Danish dating-site. I've had some OK dates and some horrific ones. I signed up for it when I had just moved to the City. I didn't really know anyone in Copenhagen so it was a way to meet guys. After the worst date ever I stopped renewing my membership.

Now I've kind of in the same situation as when I first moved to the city. I don't really have any friends who are gay, so I haven't got much of a chance to meet any beautiful ladies. That's why I decided to make a profile on a dating-site.

I thought it was terrifying to make that profile, but i did it, and last week I went on my first date with a cute girl named M.
We had been texting eachother for about a week when a asked her out for a glass of wine.

I've never asked anyone out before (I've never really taken the lead when it came to guys). But she said yes and we had a great night.

We talked for more than 5 hours and really just could have kept on talking. I't was quite an amazing experience except from the fact that I didn't really feel anything. I don't feel like going on a second date, but i would love going out with her as a friend.

Now the questiont is how the hell do I tell her that?.

Telling People: My sister

After a few months of just thinking and thinking and thinking until my head spun around, I decided to talk to my sister.

My sister i 6 years my senior and have always been the one person in my life i knew i could rely on. I have always told her everything and she has always supported me in every choice i made.
Sis lives in Switzerland, so at christmas, which we always celebrate with our parents and brother, i decided that it was time.

I told her how i had a crush on a girl from uni and that i had been quite confused. She smiled and just wanted to hear about my thoughts. I was surprised how easy it was to talk about and how well she recieved the news. I don't really know what i had expected... We come from a loving family and have always been respected for the choices we have made. But still, maybe because i hadn't seen it coming, i was happily surprised by my sisters reaction and curiosity.

Stolen from http://www.orkugifs.com/en/sister-scraps-1.html

Now, whenever we talk, she asks how its goes and just want to hear more about my adventures in to the lesbian world.

#1

I was 24 before i began considering if I was actually gay. I am now 25 and pretty sure I am gay.
Through the years I have kissed guys, I have had sex with guys, I have dated guys for up to 4 months, but i have never really been in love.

I have always thought of myself as too choosy or picky when it came to men. I thought somehow the lack of love was due to low self-worth, but now I am not so sure.

Last year I had a somewhat life-changing experience. I crushed on a girl for my class at Uni. In the beginning I didn’t even know what was going on. Suddenly I was looking to seeing her, I was laughing at all of her jokes and so on. You know how it is. Getting giddy and giggly whenever she talked to me.
Following a few weeks of this I finally realised what was going on. I had a crush on a woman!
Being a woman myself, who have never thought of other women in this way, it was quite a shocker. I spent a few weeks just contemplating the thought and possibility of me actually being a gay woman.

7 months after my first discovery I am more and more convinced that I am actually gay.
I have talked to my amazing sister and some of my best friends and i finally feel quite at peace with this discovery.

Stolen from http://youmightbealesbianif.tumblr.com/